How to understand that a guy is excited and wants sex

It is difficult for young girls to determine the physiological manifestations during intimacy with a guy. Not everyone knows how to correctly determine the signs of male arousal. They are both physiological and psychological. Knowing them, any girl will be able to understand when a guy is excited and it's time to move on to the next stage of intimacy.

Signs of arousal when kissing

Touching each other with lips excites boys and girls. At the moment of a kiss, men express their desire for sex with the following signs:

• Rapid breathing and heart rate.
• Biting the partner's lips.
• Dilated nostrils.
• Pupil dilation.
• Redness of lips, cheeks.
• The guy tries to cling to the girl with his whole body.
• Formation.
• Hoarseness after a kiss.
• Before kissing his partner, he licks his lips, bites them, touches them with his fingers.
• Touches his throat after a kiss.

After the kiss, the guy looks forward to the continuation, excited to the extreme. He will give out excitement and other signs. Look carefully at it immediately after separating the lips. He will have a lost, blurry look, most likely the guy will take a deep breath and hug you tightly. If the kiss is not filled with passion, physical and emotional stress, then the man does not have strong feelings for his partner or his head is busy with something else.

Signs of arousal after a kiss in girls are the same as in men. But women can demonstrate it more vividly, for example by moaning or passionately stroking their partner's neck with their fingers.

During hugs

To understand that a guy is excited during a kiss, it's simple, you touch his lips, hear his breathing, feel his heartbeat. But hugs won't give you as much information. Although during the hug you can pay attention to the following manifestations:

• The partner wants to hug the girl, reduce the distance between the bodies. Use any excuse to do it.
• The guy touches his partner's neck, face, hair, waist, shoulders, knees, hands.
• He does not immediately remove his hands from the beloved's body, lingers, wants to prolong the pleasant moment.
• A man tries to look into a woman's eyes. The gaze is deep and long.
• At the moment of the hug, he puts his head on his beloved's shoulder, buries his nose in her neck.
• Performs progressive movements: presses firmly, then moves away.
• After a passionate touch, the skin becomes "goose-eyed", shivers run through it.
• He tugs at the hem of his clothes.
• He tries to get under the girl's blouse with his palm.
• Sweaty palms.
• Increased salivation. The guy is thirsty, drinks a lot of water.
• It tightens the muscles, keeps the back straight for a more collected, toned look.
• Penile tension. This symptom is the main and most noticeable, especially if the guy wears tight pants or thin shorts.

Recently, scientists have discovered another hormone - kisspeptin. It activates the pituitary cells responsible for gonadotropic (sexual behavior) formation. Therefore, it is not recommended to exclude lips-to-lip kisses from foreplay. This stage causes a chemical reaction in the body and stimulates sexual desire.

physical signs

The physiology of men and women is such that at the moment of arousal, the body tenses up in anticipation of intimacy with a partner. Girls become more flexible, flexible, passionately react to their partner's touch, nipples harden, genitals are moistened. For men, the situation is slightly different.

Physiological signs of sexual arousal in boys:

1. If he is next to the woman he wants, he keeps his back straight.
2. He unbuttoned his shirt.
3. Adjusts the trouser belt.
4. Touches his face.
5. Answers the interlocutor's questions slowly.
6. Spread your legs wide while sitting.
7. When standing, take the "feet shoulder width apart" position.
8. Curved pelvis.
9. Active gestures.
10. He speaks loudly and quickly.
11. He looks at the girl, trying to catch her eye.
12. He opens his arms as if to simulate a hug.
13. Embarrassed.
14. Often licks lips.
15. Open your mouth.
16. Lowers the timbre of the voice, a slight hoarseness may appear.
17. The face becomes sweet, kind, favorable to communication.
18. Eyebrows raised.
19. Stutters in conversation.
20. The pupils of the eyes expand, the color of the eyes may change.

In addition to these manifestations, to understand that a man is excited to the end, his sweaty palms, trembling hands and behavior like a peacock blowing its tail and judging its beloved woman. At such moments, girls need to control their behavior so that flirting does not go too far if the woman does not plan to have sex. Giving a guy false hope with tricks, touches and flirting is not worth it.

Psychological signs

It is very difficult for men to hide their arousal. They are distinguished by signs of psychological distress. Guys do certain things, gesture in a certain way. This process cannot be controlled. So pay special attention to your partner. You will understand that the guy is excited, but hides this fact, if you notice the following expressions:

1. A man worries about his appearance. Adjusts clothes, hairstyle, looks in the mirror.
2. Does not stray far from the object of attention.
3. Extends the time of hand touching if the girl hands him something.
4. He is shy to kiss, so he touches the girl's face and hair.
5. He showered the girl with compliments.
6. Switch to a whisper if he says something intimate.
7. It feels awkward if a girl looks at him without looking away.
8. He tries to please his partner in order to achieve what he wants.
9. When the girl answers, she smiles, experiences a spiritual uplift.

The psychological aspects of arousal must be considered individually. Each man has his own behavioral characteristics.

Signs of arousal while texting

Modern people very often create love relationships using dating sites and social networks, so correspondence becomes an integral part of communication. If the girl has not yet met the interlocutor in person and he writes dozens of SMS every day, you need to think about the fact that the man wants intimacy, rapprochement.

The fact that a guy is passionate during correspondence can be understood by the following signs:

• Frequently visits the social network to check for new messages from the object of attention.
• Use any excuse to text a girl.
• Ask to throw in a photo or send your own. The openness of the desired image depends on the degree of intimacy between the guy and the girl.
• Responds quickly to messages, ready to help at any time of the day.
• Openly admit that they want to, although the phrases may be veiled. For example, "I'd like to see you now", "You couldn't handle it yourself, I could help if I were nearby", "It's a pity that we live in different cities, be sure to apply to your swimming section and carefully review your figure. "
• I want to write more often in the evenings when I am relaxed and alone.

On a note! It is believed that the duration of intercourse and the hardness of the penis directly depends on the behavior and appearance of the woman during foreplay. Coaxing, gentle touches on the buttocks, back, body movements help to stimulate a guy for quality sex.

Talking on the phone

Signs of horny men on the phone will be:

• Long conversations.
• Call for any reason.
• Pause in the conversation.
• Ambiguous phrases and questions with a sexual undertone, so the guy probes the waters.
• The voice is hoarse, the man tries to speak softly, to get rid of rude words.
• The boy is lost in thought, at a loss for answers.
• An anxious man slows down his response to external stimuli. So he speaks slowly on the phone.
• The guy breathes deeply, sighs often.
• Trying to meet as soon as possible.
• Constantly repeats that he likes the interlocutor.
• Offers her various date options, agrees to any meeting terms.
• Ignite the girl's feelings by describing his virtues.

It is impossible to excite and tease a man for too long correspondence, phone conversations. Set the line yourself, taking into account the character of the man, his temperament. Otherwise, he will cool down and lose interest.

Tips for girls

Take into account the recommendations of sexologists on how to use knowledge of the physiological and psychological signs of male arousal:

1. Palpitations, shortness of breath, and wide-eyed stares are signs of uncontrollable arousal in guys, so they're key. Read this information first.
2. Verbal symptoms of a burning desire for sex include the timbre of the voice, its tempo and the characteristics of the conversation. In order to notice them, you need to communicate with a man not through correspondence, but in reality.
3. Another way to understand that a man wants sex is to follow his behavior during a date. Wanting to win the female, he will show himself from the best side, keep his legs wide, perform uncontrolled reflex actions. But if the girl starts following his every step, she will get embarrassed, so she watches her partner little by little, imperceptibly.

And another important tip: if you understand that the guy is very excited, wants to see you in his bed, decide how your communication will continue. An erection without discharge is harmful to the male side. If a girl flirts and hints about sex, but constantly abandons her plans, playing with her partner's feelings, this will affect the guy's health. It is better to stop communicating or directly state that you are not yet ready for sex, than to entertain a man with false expectations for a long time.